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Resources

Books to work on with your partner
  • The Ultimate Relationship Journal for Couples by Miriam Torres Brinkmann

  • Relationship Questions for Couples: Guided Conversations to Cultivate Curiosity, Communication, and Connection by Miriam Torres Brinkmann 

  • Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by John Gottman, Julie Schwartz Gottman, et al.

  • An Emotionally Focused Workbook for Couples by Veronica Kallos-Lilly and Jennifer Fitzgerald.

The Ultimate Relationship Workbook for Couples: Simple Exercises to Improve Communication and Strengthen Your Bond by Ari Sytner 

Books
Books for couples to help in your relationship
  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver.

  • Happy Together: Using the Science of Positive Psychology to Build Love That Lasts by Suzann Pileggi Pawelski and James O. Pawelski.

  • Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson.

  • Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

  • Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship by Stan Tatkin 

  • Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure by Emily Morse

  • Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic by Esther Perel

  • Stronger Than You Think: The 10 Blind Spots That Undermine Your Relationship...and How to See Past Them by Gary W. Lewandowski Jr. 

  • The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman

  • How to Improve Your Marriga Without Talking About It by Patricia Love and Steven Stonsny

  • Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix

  • The Divorce remedy  by Michelle Weiner Davis

  • The Ethical Slut I by Janet hardy and Dossie Easton

Book for Affairs or Infidelity
  • Getting Past the Affair: A Program to Help You Cope, Heal, and Move On--Together or
    Apart  by Douglas K. Snyder, Kristina Coop Gordon, Donald H. Baucom 

  • When you are the One Who Cheats  by Dr.Tammy Nelson

  • The State Of Affairs by Esther Perel

  • When Good People Have Affairs by Mira Kirshenbaum

  • Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay, by Mira Kirschenbaum

Books to be better in relationships in general
  • Why Won’t You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts by Harriet Lerner.

  • Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead by Brené Brown.

  • The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner.

  • Drama Free, Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab

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